This might sound crazy but I've always thought that Maslow's hierarchy of needs (attached) is also applicable for the outcomes that one could want out of a relationship. The lower tiers shouldn't be considered less important, but more oriented toward the hedonistic while the higher are more oriented toward the mental. 1) At the base level is good sex- it's foundational to everything and should be what you build the relationship on at the beginning. The pyramid will topple if the foundation is weak. 2) Next, rather than 'safety,' I think 'stability' is a better term with the idea being that t… Read more

Growing up, I think every single gay guy fantasizes about straight cock, and likely gave some semi-serious thought to various strategies that could make that happen (at least I did). Unfortunately, in many cultures, there's a huge stigma against straight guys doing gay shit with kind of a social penalty of being labelled as weak, less masculine, weird, etc. So, there's definitely a challenge in the social logistics to bringing em over to the gay side. Now, there might be some naive skeptics reading this thinking "What rubbish! Straight guys cant go gay. it's a hard wired piece of neurophysiolo… Read more

I love getting fucked anon. I don't always do the traditional thing - y'know, the standard motel dark-room setup with me jockstrapped ass up face down and pump n dumped by whichever 40s bi/curious married white guy (this demographic is overwhelmingly the norm everywhere) that responds . Sometimes I just want a cock inside me, like craving take-out for dinner. Maybe it's my ADHD or being an introvert but social stuff exhausts me. Even the seemingly benign pre-fuck small talk before a hookup is a bit of a stress for me. That's why anon is awesome. It's like, let's fast-forward through all the bu… Read more

I’ve been doing anon pump and dump scenarios periodically over the last 10 years across mostly Canada and the US as both a top and bottom and I thought that I’d draft a guide document for anyone thinking of organizing it to be a cumdump bottom for the first time. Hope this helps and let me know if I’ve forgotten anything. Checklist of main things to pack (not exhaustive): Change of clothes Lube (I prefer vaseline as the main lubricator- cheap and will keep your hole operational the entire night and in addition, a small sized silicone lube placed on the bed where the t… Read more

This is a mostly true story of an experience I had in Alberta; the main events really happened but I've exaggerated some of the details to make the story more interesting. It doesn't paint me in the best light and am not normally this much of an asshole, but I guess this experience wouldn't have happened if I wasn't at least part-asshole on the inside or maybe an asshole-in-training. I was having a terrible day, not only terrible on its own merit but also consistent with a terrible week and a terrible month, a streak that would have had even the most optimistic bloke thinking dark and terribl… Read more

This is a very weird story of mine of how I experienced what it must be like to get fucked by a demon. So a couple years ago in Ontario, I met up for a hookup with a guy off Grindr. He was attractive - kinda like a younger shorter Russell Brand (when he was wild and hardcore on d**gs). It was only supposed to be an uneventful bumping of flesh and taking of his cum but this is one of my most vivid hookup memories ever. His apartment was a second-level space accessed by a shady looking door between a bar and a psychic reading establishment. After being buzzed in and entering the shady little do… Read more

Hey guys. New to this. So, I sometimes write down my encounters, especially the weird ones, and I was thinking I could just post mini stories of them here. Open to suggestions.… Read more