to SideValve45 :there are two old but attractive ladies in my village, but I am also afraid to approach them "to have some fun together" for the same reason like yours....
There's a woman that lives on my street that may be a year or two younger, but not by much. Similar face and body. I speak to her now and then since she likes to walk the neighborhood for exercise, or if I run into her in the grocery store. She's quite friendly, but has never given a hint that she'd like to get together for some fun. We live in a small town, so if I proposition her and I'm wrong, well, the word may get out. But damn, I want to try some old stuff and I'm sure she'd be a lot of fun.