You just demonstrated that even though his submission was probably borne of his sex drive, your specific torture was not sexual in any way. Just the fact that he accepts it completes the circuit and re-educates him on what makes you happy is the only thing that is important. If he feels otherwise, he doesn't belong. But if he submits, he has learned and progressed. That regenerating masochism combined with your powerful persona is the fuel that enslaves him. The nose torture was phenomenal!!!
michael